I love my girlfriend so much but she DOES THIS always – Is it possible to love and hate someone same time?

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Ken met and fell in love with a beautiful woman, then they started dating only for him to discover that the girl he was in love with snored louder than a jackhammer machine whenever she slept. He couldn’t sleep the few nights she spent with him because of the disturbing sounds she made while sleeping. They are separated now, but he still longed for her, he wanted her back in his life but wished something could be done to make her stop snoring so loudly.

“Can you imagine falling in love with your dream girl, then dating her for a while, when you think you have picked the best of all the girls, then she came to sleep at your place and you discovered she snored so loudly, a person in the next room could hear her snore. That was my story.

“I loved my girlfriend and still love her. In fact, since we separated for 4 months now, I have missed her very much. I have not gotten over her. She was a nice girl and on the big side. She was fat, short, and very fair. I love fleshy girls. Cuddling her soft body had a way of relaxing me and I enjoyed holding her in my arms.

“She knew how to cook, too. She helped her mother often in her restaurant. I think that was where she learnt how to cook. And her food presentation was great. She knew how to package food to look appetizing. All these I liked about her but the other side of her I hated so much was how she snored. She slept in my house often and in those few occasions, I couldn’t sleep. Even when I went to the sitting room to sleep, the sound she made when she slept won’t allow me to sleep. I am the kind of person that wakes up over a little noise. I am very alert.

“She slept so deep that it’s very difficult to wake her. It was not always easy when she came visiting, sometimes I had to refuse her from coming to visit. I didn’t tell her it was because she snored. I didn’t want to embarrass her.

“I asked myself, is this what I would face if I eventually married her? I don’t even think she knew she snored. I did a research on how to manage a person that snores and I tried to manage her but I couldn’t. I don’t like anything that gives me discomfort.

“Aside her snoring, she was very temperamental. She liked to escalate little issues until they became big. She would always want us to fight over little issues we could resolve calmly.

“Maybe because she was seeing money from her mother’s restaurant, the money had gotten into her head. She would always want to have her way all the time and didn’t listen to me at all.

“So, when I couldn’t bear all these, we quarreled as usual and I never asked her to come back. But I missed her so much. Is it possible to love someone and hate the person at the same time?”

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